How do you tell your boyfriend that you want him to be in control more without offending him?
I’m such an assertive person by nature, but all I really want is someone that will take charge - plan romantic weekends, wake up first and kiss me awake in the morning, lean over and kiss me randomly when we’re together, make the first move before we have sex, pin me against the wall while he’s fucking me, etc etc.
I’ve always been like this; I’m not sure why. The feeling of being vulnerable, and being taken care of, turns me on. I’m not talking about just sexual arousal, but also it makes me feel safe. It makes me feel like the man I’m with will take care of me when times get tough. I don’t want to be the one in the relationship that plans everything, that makes the first move, that’s always in charge.
Sometimes I just want to be a girl.